Increase your self-worth and pricing through the discovery of your Life Path Number.
- Frea O'Brien
- 7 days ago
- 10 min read
Updated: 4 days ago
Stop running a business from survival. Find your number, build your empire, price from soul.
Women have long been taught to undercharge, over give, and seek validation through external success. Self worth and under-pricing are the biggest challenges I’ve seen my female clients face when starting up a business. It’s a problem. I’ve seen too many women in business on the edge of burnout at a time when they should be harvesting the fruits of their labour.
But a quiet revolution is unfolding.
Women business owners are waking up to their true value—not just as entrepreneurs, but as vessels of healing, wisdom, and power. This transformation is nothing short of sacred. It is a passage from the "prostitute mindset"—where survival and self-sacrifice rule—into the embodiment of the archetype of the High Priestess, a woman who knows her worth, owns her gifts, and names her price with divine clarity.
At the heart of this journey is the reclamation of self-worth.
So, I’m speaking to you, soul to soul. Woman to Woman.
One of the most profound tools to guide this transformation is numerology—specifically, the Life Path Number, which reveals your soul contract and your innate gift for service and prosperity.
The challenges of earning more money
I wrote this article specifically for us after discovering that only 33% of women business owners are generating more than $25k a year. 43% are generating less than $10k – Yeah – you read that right. (Data taken from American body, Biz2Credit’s Annual Women-Owned Business Study 2022.)
A shift needs to happen so that we’re all uplevelling to generating a minimum baseline income of £40k (the amount recommended in the UK, by the Joseph Rowntree Foundation, for a single woman and that goes up to £69k for a woman with kids). That’s the starter income that’s needed to just open up some freedom of choice to move from scarcity to sovereignty.
Despite our growing presence in business, the income gap between male and female business owners continues to exist.
Factors include the challenge of balancing business with family responsibilities, e.g. we spend 2 to 3 times more hours than men providing care, (UK Government Equalities Office Research, 2021, The Sharing of Childcare and Wellbeing Outcomes). Trust me, I’ve worked with over 500 women business owners and those generating over £100k a year are working a minimum of 40 hours a week. Those generating more than £1million, anywhere between 50 to 70 hours. The business of owning the output of your mind, body and soul takes this kind of devotion. And that means better childcare provision and co-parenting that has to be non-negotiable.
Other factors include us having limited access to investment capital.
And we hugely undervalue our
goods and services.
And it’s this – UNDERVALUE – where ‘the scarcity or prostitute mindset’ keeps us small.
The key to unlocking more money, wealth and power
In this article I’m going to zone in on the need to value your business offering, increase your pricing and as a result having the power to make bolder choices.
I’m going to play with two archetypes so this really lands in your mind, body and soul. I’m going to show you how to move from ‘the Prostitute Mindset’ to the ‘High Priestess’.
It’s time for you to honour your sacred service and charge accordingly.
And the key to generating more currency is found in the discovery of your Life Path Number.
Part 1: The Prostitute Mindset in Business
The term "prostitute mindset" is provocative. It doesn't refer to sex work, but to a psychological archetype first introduced by Caroline Myss—an energy pattern rooted in fear, survival and the need to sell yourself in exchange for love, security, or approval.
I debated about whether to use such a term – but hey a wake-up call is needed! The more money women generate the greater the social and economic impact at grassroots level. A study by the International Monetary Fund in 2014 found that women invest 90% of their income back into the family, health, education and the community, compared to 30% by men.
So, let’s shake up the narrative. We need to get so uncomfortable playing small that we rise up and say ‘Show me the money!’
So, here we go…..
In business, the prostitute mindset looks like:
Undervaluing your services to “get clients”
Overworking and undercharging
Fear of visibility and speaking your truth
People-pleasing and boundary-blurring
Feeling guilt or shame around receiving money
At its core, it’s the belief:
“If I charge too much, no one will pay me.”
“If I take up too much space, I’ll be rejected.”
“I have to give more to be worthy.”
This mindset is common among women—from solopreneurs, creatives, healers and even high performing C-Suite executives who still question their worth. We feel called to serve but carry deep ancestral and societal conditioning around money, power, and worth.
But when you decide that you will no longer trade your soul for the security of a soul sucking job...
You become a High Priestess.
Part 2: The Rise of the High Priestess in Business
The High Priestess archetype is the antithesis of the prostitute mindset. She is sovereign, deeply intuitive, and anchored in her sacred self-worth.
She doesn't chase success—she magnetises it.
She doesn’t discount her gifts—she honours them.
In business, the High Priestess:
Sells from soul, not from scarcity
Sets powerful boundaries with grace
Embodies her own medicine and charges accordingly
Creates transformational offerings, not just “products”
Leads a business that nourishes her spirit and serves the world
Her business is not a hustle; it is a temple.
Her pricing is not random; it is a reflection of her energy, initiation, and impact.
This transformation isn’t just personal—it’s global in reach. It’s the power of the butterfly effect. As you rise in your value, you create ripple effects in your families, communities, and industries.
But how do you find the specific shape of your soul’s power?
Enter: Life Path Numerology.
Part 3: Your Life Path Number reveals your Sacred Worth
Your Life Path Number in numerology is based on your date of birth. It’s like your soul’s job description for this lifetime. It tells you:
Your natural strengths
Your healing gift and spiritual mastery
How you’re designed to create wealth and serve others
How to Calculate Your Life Path Number:
Add all the digits of your full birth date together until you reach a single digit (or a Master Number: 11, 22, 33).Example: May 10, 19765 (May) + 1 + 0 + 1 + 9 + 7 + 6 = 29 → 2 + 9 = 11 (Master Number)
Let’s explore what different Life Path Numbers say about your business worth and pricing:
Life Path 1 – The Leader
Core Fear: "I'm not good enough unless I'm doing it all myself or proving myself."
Prostitute Mindset Trap: Overworking to prove worth. Fear of delegating or receiving support.
Becoming the High Priestess: Step into divine leadership, not lone-wolf hustle. Embody the Priestess as the empowered initiator who magnetises support and delegates with confidence.
Healing Gift: Innovation, independence, thought leadership
Pricing Strategy: Premium and bold. Your energy leads, so price like a pioneer. People pay for your confidence and clarity.
Affirmation: “I trust my unique way. My prices reflect my leadership.”
Life Path 2 – The Diplomat
Core Fear: "I don't matter unless I keep everyone happy."
Prostitute Mindset Trap: People-pleasing. Undercharging. Disappearing into others' needs. .
Becoming the High Priestess: Become the Priestess who holds sacred energetic boundaries. Worth is inherent, not negotiated through others' comfort. Lead softly but firmly.
Healing Gift: Connection, harmony, emotional intelligence
Pricing Strategy: Values-aligned and heart-centered. Create tiered pricing that supports inclusivity without self-sacrifice.
Affirmation: “I create wealth by building bridges, not losing myself.”
Life Path 3 – The Creative Communicator
Core Fear: "If I show my real self, I'll be rejected or mocked."
Prostitute Mindset Trap: Performative success. Diluting voice. Masking pain with charm.
Becoming the High Priestess: Speak as the Priestess whose voice creates worlds. Vulnerability becomes magnetism. Self-worth is reclaimed through authentic expression.
Healing Gift: Expression, joy, storytelling
Pricing Strategy: Charge for your voice. Package your message in joyful, creative formats (courses, group programs, content).
Affirmation: “My joy is valuable. My voice is my currency.”
Life Path 4 – The Builder
Core Fear: "If I'm not practical or productive, I'm worthless."
Prostitute Mindset Trap: Working for crumbs. Staying in 'secure' but soul-sucking systems.
Becoming the High Priestess: Embody the Priestess as the temple builder - laying foundations for soul-aligned structures. Worth is in sacred presence, not endless labour.
Healing Gift: Structure, reliability, systems
Pricing Strategy: Offer long-term value. Charge for deep transformation over time (retainers, VIP days, programs).
Affirmation: “I am a foundation for others. My work deserves solid income.”
Life Path 5 – The Liberator
Core Fear: "If I commit, I'll lose myself."
Prostitute Mindset Trap: Avoiding depth or commitment in fear of being trapped. Selling freedom for fleeting validation.
Becoming the High Priestess: Channel Priestess energy through sacred sensuality and change. Trust that your soul mission offers deeper freedom than avoidance ever will.
Healing Gift: Freedom, adventure, transformation
Pricing Strategy: Flexible offerings with high energy. Charge more for spontaneity, range, and impact.
Affirmation: “I set people free, including myself from limitation.”
Life Path 6 – The Sacred Nurturer
Core Fear: "If I don't fix or save others, I'm not valuable."
Prostitute Mindset Trap: Martyrdom. Over-giving. Guilt pricing. Carrying others' karma.
Becoming the High Priestess: Become the High Priestess who offers healing from overflow, not depletion. Worth is sacred, not earned through sacrifice.
Healing Gift: Healing, beauty, responsibility
Pricing Strategy: Don’t martyr yourself. Charge for the emotional labour and aesthetic excellence you bring.
Affirmation: “My care is sacred. My price honours my energy.”
Life Path 7 – The Mystic
Core Fear: "No one will understand me or value my depth."
Prostitute Mindset Trap: Withholding wisdom. Hiding brilliance. Intellectual superiority as armour.
Becoming the High Priestess: Step into the oracle within. The Priestess trusts her inner knowing and offers insight without needing mass approval. Worth is infinite in stillness.
Healing Gift: Insight, spiritual wisdom, teaching
Pricing Strategy: High-value, low-volume. Charge well for deep 1:1 or niche spiritual work.
Affirmation: “My presence is potent. My value is timeless.”
Life Path 8 – The Powerhouse
Core Fear: "If I'm not successful or in control, I'm nothing."
Prostitute Mindset Trap: Chasing status or money as a replacement for inner security.
Becoming the High Priestess: Embody the Priestess of embodied wealth, whose presence commands abundance. Worth is sovereign, not transactional.
Healing Gift: Empowerment, leadership, financial wisdom
Pricing Strategy: Go big. Charge like a CEO. Build in luxury, impact, and financial scalability.
Affirmation: “I lead with wealth. I empower others to rise.”
Life Path 9 – The Humanitarian
Core Fear: "I'll be alone if I let go of being needed."
Prostitute Mindset Trap: Over-extending. Staying in saviour dynamics. Neglecting self to appear selfless.
Becoming the High Priestess: Become the High Priestess of completion and compassion. She serves from wisdom, not need. Worth is eteranl, not tied to service.
Healing Gift: Compassion, vision, spiritual service
Pricing Strategy: Offer premium impact, then channel surplus into causes. Your heart is your brand.
Affirmation: “My soul-led work is worthy of abundance.”
Master 11 – The Visionary Healer
Core Fear: "If I fully shine, I'll be judged, attacked or misunderstood."
Prostitute Mindset Trap: Hiding brilliance. Playing small. Dimmed light to feel sage.
Becoming the High Priestess: Become the Radiant Priestess, whose divine channel is sacred. You don't trade light for approval, you radiate truth and call others into remembrance. Your worth is celestial.
Healing Gift: Illumination, spiritual leadership, psychic insight
Pricing Strategy: Price with reverence for your frequency. You awaken others—charge accordingly.
Affirmation: “I am the light. My worth is sacred.”
Master 22 – The Sacred Architect
Core Fear: "If I dream too big, I'll fail or I'll be crushed."
Prostitute Mindset Trap: Building others' dreams instead of your own. Avoiding spiritual authority.
Becoming the High Priestess: Channel the Architect Priestess, who grounds the divine into legacy. You lead empires with grace, because you know you have been born for this.
Healing Gift: Divine design, manifestation, legacy-building
Pricing Strategy: Create empire-level offerings. Package your vision into systems, certification, or high-end consulting.
Affirmation: “I build temples that last. I charge like a master builder.”
Master 33 – The Christed Teacher
Core Fear: "If I don't fix, heal or rescue everyone, I have no value."
Prostitute Mindset Trap: Pricing too low out of guilt. Emotional burnout masked as spiritual service. Staying in toxic mentor roles. Confusing love with obligation.
Becoming the High Priestess: Embody the Sacred Teacher who gives from overflow, not depletion. You are here to model divine compassion, not codependency. The High Priestess in you is both living and sovereign, nurturing and discerning, available but not owned. Your voice heals not when it saves but when it awakends truth.
Healing Gift: Divine service, heart leadership, spiritual teaching
Pricing Strategy: Allow high pricing to reflect your global impact and legacy teaching.
Affirmation: “My light serves the world. I am richly supported.”
Part 4: Soulful Money & Pricing Strategy for Women who know their Worth
Once you’ve discovered your Life Path Number and your sacred gift, your pricing becomes an initiation.
Here’s how to align it with your feminine power:
1. Price for the Transformation, Not the Time
Don’t charge for hours. Charge for results, healing, and shifts.Ask: “What is the long-term value of this offering to the soul I serve?”
2. Create a Pricing Ladder
Offer tiers that honour your capacity and your audience:
Low (e.g., ebooks, digital content)
Mid (e.g., workshops, group programs)
High (e.g., 1:1 VIP, bespoke transformation)
3. Energetic Pricing Check
Say your price aloud. If it feels tight in your throat or belly, it may be too low. If it feels expansive, even if scary, it’s likely aligned.
4. Sacred Boundaries = Sacred Business
Pricing is a boundary. The more clearly you own your value, the more you call in aligned clients and repel the energy of extraction.
Part 5: From Self-Sacrifice to Sacred Service – Your Next Steps
Healing the Prostitute Mindset and embodying the High Priestess is a practice. Here’s how to begin:
1. Name Where You’re Selling Yourself Short
Be honest. Where are you over-giving? Undercharging? Seeking validation? Naming it is the first act of liberation.
2. Anchor into Your Life Path Power
Learn about your Life Path Number. Journal on how this energy has always been with you—and how your business can become a temple to it.
3. Raise Your Prices with Ritual
Do it with intention. Light a candle. Call in your ancestors. Speak your new prices into being with love and power.
4. Affirm Your Worth Daily
Repeat affirmations that anchor your sacred value. Let your nervous system learn to feel safe in wealth.
5. Surround Yourself with Sovereign Sisters
Community matters. Find women who are walking the path of spiritual entrepreneurship and charging like High Priestesses.
Your Business as a Temple
Divine woman with a sacred gift:
You were never meant to hustle for worth.
You were never meant to bargain with your soul.
You were born to serve from overflow,
to heal through presence,
and to lead with light.
Your Life Path is your divine permission slip to stand in your full value.
So price like a High Priestess.
Walk like a Queen.
Serve like a soul on fire.
The world is waiting for your worth to rise.
Ready to discover more about your Life Path and price from soul?
Book The Clarity Service Consultation with me, Frea O’Brien, Soul Business Numerologist.
Reclaim your value. Align your business. Prosper in your power.
✨ This is not about business as usual. This is about business as sacred service. ✨
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